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Setting boundaries at work

Extra work, messages while you are ill or a remark in a meeting. Practise expressing your boundary, discussing agreements and choosing a feasible next step.

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Chapter 1 · 02:22

Why saying no feels difficult

Make clear what you want to protect and distinguish your own response from organisational problems.

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These fictional conversations help you prepare. They do not determine your medical capacity, legal position or what you should sign. Your agreements and circumstances matter. Seek individual advice when needed.

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1. Why saying no feels difficult

Make clear what you want to protect and distinguish your own response from organisational problems.

2. Expressing and maintaining your boundary

Describe the situation, your boundary and a feasible next step.

3. Work messages during illness

Distinguish work tasks from agreed contact about sickness absence.

4. Guilt during recovery

Recognise your commitment without making an unrealistic promise out of guilt.

5. Workload and priorities

Make visible what a new assignment means for existing tasks and deadlines.

6. Availability outside working hours

Clarify agreements about routine questions, availability and emergency contact.

7. Belittling remarks

Name concrete behaviour and ask for feedback about the work itself.

8. Bullying and seeking support

Record events factually and explore an appropriate support route.

9. Talking to your manager

Prepare one example, its effect on your work and a concrete request.

10. Privacy and working safely

Discuss what you want to keep private and what checks or support a task needs.

11. Leaving a job carefully

Check conditions and agreements before making a major decision. Seek individual advice when uncertain.

12. When your job no longer fits

Explore what can change and the concrete conditions you need to work well.

13. Staying with your boundary

Distinguish new information from the urge to resolve tension immediately by saying yes.

14. Your plan and practice situations

Prepare a first response, a second response and a feasible next step.

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What do you say when it becomes difficult?

Each simulation has different routes. See the effect of your choices, repair an answer and finish with a practice plan. The conversations extend the course; they are not literal video excerpts.

Illustrative photo of a conversation about work

12 min · Chapter 5

Not everything fits today

Discuss what must move when extra work arrives and repair an overly quick commitment.

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Illustrative photo of a conversation about work

12 min · Chapter 3

Ill, and asked to take on a task

Separate work tasks from agreed absence contact and clarify what you cannot commit to now.

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Illustrative photo of a conversation about work

15 min · Chapter 7

Keep the feedback about my work

Respond to a belittling remark, revisit your response later or prepare a next step with support.

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Sources and further reading

For general background on work pressure, support and the company doctor, see Arboportaal from the Dutch Ministry of Social Affairs and Employment. The examples here are practice conversations, not individual medical or legal advice.

Reflect on your starting point

What do you recognise in your own answers?

The self-tests on boundaries, workload and work-life balance help you choose a practice point. They reflect your answers and do not diagnose burnout or determine your legal position. An account and Premium access are required.